We have all been in some type of relationship, but when you are the one who got sucked into a long term relationship that quickly spun into an unhealthy and suffocating experience, it is hard to get "back in the game". The single life is just too wonderful for us to think about anyone destroying it, again. But it is us, who learn, grow, and become the women that take on the world.
And so, why do we stay single after dating the nut ball for too long? Well,
1. FREEDOM! Tears of joy it is to have freedom. Freedom to do whatever it is without the extended bullshit of the cray cray driving us up the wall.... Freedom has NOT felt better. And when this single life becomes reality, the part of freedom brings tears of joy to the eyes.
2. "I ain't got no time for that": No longer do we listen to his bullshit, negativity, and stress. And so now, why would we want to add someone's issues to our own? No, thanks.
3. On MY own time: After being with a cray cray for so long, the idea of "this is my choice and no one can stand in the way of what I do" is a hallelujah to the ears.
4. The sky is the limit: The idea of being with someone sounds nauseating knowing it's our time to be us. And to make our dreams into reality and our thoughts into actions.
I am on a journey to fulfilling my life with HAPPINESS, INDEPENDENCE AND FREEDOM.
But SOMETIMES we do wonder...